Empathy!

'Fraid I'm gonna get heavy again! Cannot understand what's going down with some people! Look, I DO Hope there is an Afterlife! And a God (or Race of gods)! That would be Good. Yet I cannot understand how anyone can be a martyr, or a "suicide bomber"! I hear some DOCTORS have done this! Yet how can they Guarantee going to Heaven etc.???? Cannot understand paedophiles or rapists either! Just cannot see their point of view (or POINTS of view or whatever). Cannot understand gay men NOT fancying Fern Cotton, Beyonce etc.!!! The "martyrs" though, have they ANY rationale for what they do? How can you convert people to Islam if those people (and themselves) are blown up? Let's have some common sense here!